Embarking on a journey into the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) lifestyle as a couple can be both exciting and challenging. One of the first steps is deciding how to get started. Depending on the type of couple you are, there are several main avenues to explore: seeking a community online, visiting a club, attending a resort, or participating in parties.

1. Casual Couples

If you’re a couple looking for a more casual vibe, visiting a club might be the best choice. Clubs offer a safe and anonymous environment where you can explore your desires. You can always leave if you feel uncomfortable, but you might also have the best night and exchange numbers with someone special.

2. Couples Looking for Lifelong Connections

If you’re more interested in making friends and lifelong connections, seeking an online community or going to a resort might be the best option for you. Resorts offer the opportunity to wake up with the same people and attend breakfast together, building connections over the course of many days. It’s like summer camp for adults, where you can develop deeper relationships with like-minded individuals.

3. Participating in Parties

Participating in parties is a good in-between option for couples. You can meet someone online to set up a meeting and then have a longer interaction in person, either at their place or yours. This allows for a more extended connection right from the start.

No matter which path you choose to get started in the ENM lifestyle as a couple, it’s important to approach it with an open mind and clear communication. Take the time to explore your options and find what works best for your relationship. Remember, the ENM lifestyle is about exploration and adventure, so enjoy the journey together!